Pete’s Story: How One Veteran Turned Gambling Harm Into Hope for Others

“Gambling became an escape — until it nearly cost me everything.”

If there’s anyone who understands how gambling harm takes root — and how recovery is possible — it’s Pete Buckley, Activities and Volunteer Coordinator at Betknowmore UK and former RAF Warrant Officer. His journey shows how easily gambling can spiral and how connection, honesty and the right support can help you take back control.

Life in the RAF — and where gambling first took hold

“I joined the RAF in 2003 at 19 and served for 22 years across various UK bases and overseas detachments,” Pete recalls. “Reaching Warrant Officer was a proud milestone, but after four years in rank, I felt ready for a new chapter, one that offered stability for my family in Shropshire and personal growth.”

For Pete, gambling started as harmless fun:

“I’d place small bets on the Grand National or play fruit machines in snooker halls. It felt fun and harmless, even though I was often secretive about it. Things escalated when I was posted to RAF Lossiemouth at 19, I had money, privacy, and time on my hands. Gambling quickly became a regular escape.”

When gambling became a way to cope

The escalation came quietly, years later.

“When I met my wife and stepson, I wanted to stop. I managed for a while, but without actively working on recovery, the cycle returned. Hiding gambling from my partner, losing sleep, and becoming unreliable were clear signs. Post-deployment periods were especially risky, you suddenly have access to money again and little accountability.”

The turning point: connection, not isolation

What changed everything wasn’t punishment. It wasn’t hitting “rock bottom”.

It was people. Connection.

“My wife and children have been my greatest support. Their belief in me gave me the strength to change."

Pete also found crucial help through Gamblers Anonymous.

"Gamblers Anonymous also played a key role, working the 12 steps with a sponsor, aking on service roles, being accountable. I didn’t initially seek help through the military, but support was there, through welfare and medical teams.”

Life after gambling harm — and supporting others

Today, Pete’s life looks completely different.

“Life is more stable and fulfilling. Financial stress has eased, relationships have strengthened, and I no longer carry the weight of secrecy. Recovery isn’t always easy; facing emotions I used to avoid can be tough, but with support, I’ve learned to manage life’s challenges without escaping into gambling.

Transitioning into my role at Betknowmore UK has been incredibly rewarding. It allows me to contribute meaningfully to tackling gambling harms while supporting my own recovery journey.”

Pete's message to anyone struggling

Here’s what he wants other veterans, serving personnel, and families to know:

If Pete’s story resonates, read our article “Why So Many Veterans Struggle With Gambling – And How to Get Help Fast” to learn about available support. You can also connect with Forces-friendly gambling help through Troopr.